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Rejection in LOVE...



Sometimes even though we don’t want the same thing anymore…. Is it? Yes it is “broken dreams”, which still haunts us.
Today’s young are suffering from three main crazy reasons: - rejection in love, low marks in exam and drug…
I was one of the victims. Let’s talk on “rejection in love”…
Now a day there is a trend to have a girl-friend or a boy-friend in our graduation school, not in grad school but also in some of the schools in metro city. Students at this stage feel very humiliated in their groups if they don’t have a girl-friend or a boy-friend. Sometimes students make sarcasm on individuals that he doesn’t have balls to get a girl-friend. I have seen some of the cases in the top university of metro city that the students have their own place and group-fame if they have their partner with them. So the time is very crucial for student when they enter into some colleges to get a girl-friend or a boy-friend.



Now the story begins… many of the student starts falling in love which is not love actually, it is infatuation in my words. In college life many love stories forecasts and then break-up also takes place with the same rate as they got patch-up…  
 And here it is… We see only what we choose to see. We all were looking for our happiness perhaps in the wrong places.

I have a theory that the best things comes from personal experiences, some of the good one I have come with the real experience of my life and somehow this has come over as true and valid and persuasive but real life is confusing and nothing is black or white.
Broken hearts can be mended, all it takes is a few drunken night and many nights of wetting pillows. What is your partner really mean when he or she breaks up with you? He or she still says that, he or she likes you a lot, and never seen you as that one. He or she still loves you and will always love you. If he or she means what they are saying the why would they break up with you? Is it just a way of making you feel better or is there faint possibilities that he/she may come back.
Someone says that getting busy with the life is the best therapy for heartbreak…if only that was simple, but who knows…. Every time when we stand in front of mirror then we ask with ourselves – have I changed? Will I make him or her again fall in love with me? What’s in him or her that makes me think about him or her all time? Am I not good enough to be with him or her? And so on….
The real solution of broken heart is other boy/girl or being busy in your life and it latter you feel like all your dreams come true.


After rain comes sunshine just as winter always turns to spring but the spring blossoms depends on how we are able to use the winter. Don’t let the pain of one season destroy the joy of all the rest. Don’t judge life by one difficult season/time. Means no matter how bad the situation may be, there would still be a light of hope.
When you wake up another morning you will realize it’s just another regular day and then you put your life on hold…

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