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Today's LOVE

Love of new generation or it is ‘something else’!

In India no metro city is likely to be hyper metro city with the population more than 20 millions. None of the countries have such type of hyper metro cities, where every year people come in herd. Rural India is migrating to urban India in search of jobs and ample opportunities provided by these cities.

India is one of the largest exporters of IT. And millions of people work for IT companies or related companies like BPO, KPO etc. Females also work hand in hand with males in India. If we see the data, it tells us that the number of women working in this sector has grown by 60%. 
People are in huge rush to have high standard of living. Everyone is here in rush for something and fighting for something they want to get. Forgetting the importance of everything that they already have in the search of what they want. People are getting cynical rather than substantial. Now they know the price but not the value.

Who has time for their families, friends and closer ones? Wishing to get something that they don’t have without caring of what they have. People stay far from their closer ones assuming their peers as their family. Finding happiness perhaps at the wrong place. So if we see the rate of divorce in India, it is increasing with an accelerating rate. In metro cities like Delhi and Bangalore rate of divorce is increasing more than 50%. The sudden rise in the number of divorce is alarming. And these people are searching affordable divorce lawyer. And also the rate of divorce is recorded highest in IT and related industry.

But anyway we were talking about today’s love...
In spite of everything we want someone with an opposite sex, someone who loves us, someone who breaks our loneliness. And we also find them very easily at our work-place or in our surrounding. We meet anyone, like the outside persona; approach him/her and preparing ourselves to say the three holy words. Is it that simple?

Most of the times before falling in love with anyone, we confirm certain criteria. If it suits us then we fell for them. Today we love the person if he or she fulfils some particular criteria. We want a package in our partner. A girl loves a boy only if he is well settled, earning good money and looks good. A boy loves a girl only if she looks beautiful.

But anyway what is this love? Is it just a security in social life or being hypocrite? Since yesterday when someone fell in love it was called ‘love at first sight’ and now it is ‘lust’. Why people cannot love now?

People fell in, so called ‘love’ very easily now-a-days but how many of us end it last with some happy ending stories? How many times people change their partner until they get married? What is this – habit, mistake or ‘something else’!
Why breakup happens, because they found someone better or the things didn’t work or they lost interest in them. 
After everything if it comes to marriage, if it happens anyway, then the question is; does that go all well! No, this is what the divorce figure shows.

The answers to all the questions lie inside us. We need to find out what is it that we really want and what we are naming it. Keeping ourselves in dark without confronting and making shield around us is not the solution. It’s time to confess. 


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